Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Love Beyond Dislikes - Amor Além De Desgostos

Gratitude
If there are people in your life that you don’t like, the negative energy vibrations you transmit toward them drag down your positive vibes, and you end up lower down on the “vibes scale” than you want to be. For example, let’s say on a scale of 1 to 10, 10 is your highest positive vibration, and 1 will be your most negative.
Even if you have high vibes with most people in your life, just having one person you don’t like can drag your vibes down to a lower level.
It is in your best interest to find a way to be grateful to all people–yes, even if you hate them, even if they drive you crazy, even if you are completely justified in hating them because of their unspeakably heinous behavior towards you.

Here are five keys to transform your perspective.

1. Discover the Root of the Problem

The first step is to spend time with yourself and look into what happens to you when this particular person sets you off. Take the focus off them and shine the light fairly and squarely on yourself. You probably find you’re filled with a turmoil of emotions: anger, frustration, irritation, hurt, disappointment and so on. Allow these emotions to be there with non-judgment and compassion for yourself.
As you stay present to your emotions, they dissolve and you quickly re-discover your inner peace, clarity of mind and well-being. In addition, your sense of humor, and creativity return. From this place of wisdom and clarity, you can start to move into compassion and understand that the other person is living in pain and fear and doesn’t know a better way to behave.

2. Focus on the Good

Most people have some redeeming qualities, although in certain cases they are quite hidden from view. Assume the good qualities are in there, somewhere, because they are. Remember that everyone is born filled with love, joy, and inner peace. Somewhere in their life (for many people it’s because of an abusive childhood), this person has lost their way and become disconnected from the source of love. They have become trapped in a cycle of abuse–toward themselves and others.
Send this person vibrations of love. Pray for them. Ask that they will find their way back to the light. This does not mean that what they did to you was okay. It doesn’t mean that you have to spend time with them, or even have them in your life. It doesn’t mean that you are the person to help them.
It does mean, however, that you raise your positive vibration level.

3. Create Boundaries

One of the reasons people irritate us and get under our skin is because we don’t make our boundaries clear. It’s important to be clear about what is acceptable behavior toward us and what isn’t. This means we have to speak our truth, no matter what.
Everyone in your life should be respectful, friendly and courteous towards you. If they are not, it’s up to you to address the issue. Always make sure that you are respectful, kind and courteous towards others.

4. Mind Your Vibration

We get what we vibrate. If we speak to people in anger, that’s what we get back. If we are disrespectful, mean and insincere, that’s what we get back.
Allow your turbulent emotions to pass through you and, when you feel calm and relaxed, have a conversation with the person you don’t like, or write them an email or a letter. Communicate what you want with clarity, friendliness, and respect.
The more clearly you ask for what you want, the more likely you are to get it.
The number one reason you are doing this, remember, is to shift your vibrational level higher up the scale. With most people you get a positive response, but not always. Hold the faith, because the transformation in you is miraculous, irrespective of how the other person responds.

5. Understand the Power of Love

When we take 100 percent responsibility for what is happening inside of us, miracles happen. We find it easy to be grateful because we have transformed dislike into compassion.
Love is recognizing ourselves in the other.
On one level we are physical form and psychological makeup. On a deeper level we are all the consciousness of oneness. Love is the recognition of our oneness. Compassion, the highest form of love, then arises in us.

Pragito Dove is a master trainer, international speaker, and meditation expert who teaches people how to transform pain and fear into joy and inner peace in order to achieve real world success. A best-selling author and thought leader on visionary thinking, she is dedicated to re-igniting passion and vision in people's lives, and making abundance accessible to all. As a featured columnist on The Huffington Post, Pragito urges her readers to step into the greatest creative expression of who they are.

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Thursday, January 16, 2014

Painho


Você me trouxe de volta à mãe terra. Mostrou-me como encontrar e ver sua beleza. Quando era uma menininha eu observava atentamente os teus olhos em busca do horizonte, teus cabelos longos soprando suavemente ao vento, as tuas mãos hábeis escolhendo e tratando o nosso peixe. Lembro-me de nossos pés descalços correndo corridas infinitas, nossas aventuras despreocupadas com rotulos de masculino ou feminino, enquanto subia-mos em árvores ou conquistava-mos rios e mares . Você é meu herói .. Lembro-me como se sente poder voar , porque você me jogou no alto do céu para que eu pudesse cair e mergulhar graciosamente dentro de mim. Pulando de seus ombros para as águas claras das nossas praias só serviu para me deixar saber que eu poderia saltar e nadar em qualquer coisa que viesse pela vida ... Quando eu era uma garotinha , você me cantou canções de mudança, você me mostrou o significado por trás dos véis de boas letras das nossas musicas Brasileiras, você deu à luz a minha Bohemia Intelectual e questionamentos críticos, certo de que eu iria aprender tudo que a minha mente procurasse no futuro, e vo estava certo. Muito Obrigada ! Você pai , você me incentivou a debater por justiça, a ser clara com as minhas palavras , poética na minha libertação, e sempre a homenagear o grande espírito em todas as pessoas. Pai, você nunca me disse o que fazer, mas com certeza você me mostrou como admirar o que é simples. Toda vez que eu medito sobre o que é natural e o que é simplicidade, eu vejo o teu rosto primeiro. Por favor, saiba , que a tua presença e o teu amor, formam a maior parte da beleza que eu ainda posso ver em mim mesma , ela permanece sem envelhecer. É por tua causa também que hoje, muitas vezes, eu vou experimentar da paz com a natureza. É por tua causa também que hoje eu posso sentir paz em estar sozinha, quando preciso estar. É por tua causa que eu gosto de ler e pesquisar, sempre ensinando a mim mesma e aos meus filhos, uma vida de aprendizados  por busca propria. É por tua causa também, que eu me sinto tão abençoada ... É minha esperança e felicidade que você mantenha vivo o indio dentro de ti . Ele é um homem sábio que fala em vós ... É um privilégio ser sua filha , tua eterna "Valsa Para Uma Menininha..." Eternamente grata pelo teu existir, Nine. Te Amo

You brought me back to mother earth. Showed me how to find and see her beauty. As a little girl I would carefully observe your eyes searching the horizon, your long hair gently blowing on the wind, your skilled hands catching our fish. I recall our bare feet running infinite races, our genderless power conquering trees, rivers and seas. You are my hero.. I remember how it feels to fly because you threw me high in the sky so that I could fall and dive gracefully within myself. Jumping off your shoulders into the clear waters of our beaches only served to let me know I could jump and swim into anything... When I was a little girl, you sang me songs of change, you showed me the meaning behind the veils of great lyrics, you gave birth to my intellectual Bohemia and critical questioning, certain that I would learn anything my mind seeks. Thank you!! You dad, you encouraged me to debate for justice, to be clear with my words, poetic in my deliverance, and to honor the great spirit in everyone. Dad, you never told me what to do, but you sure thought me how to admire what is simple. Every time I meditate on natural and simplicity, I see your face first. Please know, your presence and love shaped most of the beauty I can still see in myself, it remains agelessly. It's because of you that I often go experience peace in nature. It's because of you that I found peace in being alone, when I have to. It's because of you that I enjoy reading and teaching myself and my children of a life of joy for what it is. It's because of you too that I feel so blessed... It's my hope and happiness that you keep the Indian alive within. He's a wise man speaking through you... I'm privileged to be your daughter, forever the little girl of "Valsa Para Uma Menininha" song ... Eternamente grata pelo teu existir, Nine. Te Amo

Menininha do meu coração
Eu só quero você
A três palmos do chão
Menininha não cresça mais não
Fique pequenininha
Na minha canção
Senhorinha levada
Batendo palminha
Fingindo asustada do bixo papão
Menininha que graça é você
Uma coisinha assim começando a viver
Fique assim meu amor sem crescer
Porque o mundo é ruim
É ruim e você vai sofrer de repente
Uma desilusão
Porque a vida é somente teu bixo papão
Fique assim, fique assim, sempre assim
E se lembre de mim
Pelas coisas que eu dei
E também não se esqueça de mim
Quando você souber em fim
De tudo que eu amei.

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

DICA DE UMA BRUXA ANCIÃ


Escolha conviver com pessoas determinadas, sinceras, honestas e realizadas;
Escolha amizades que te estimule no que tens de melhor;
Escolha relações profissionais que te impulsionem para o alto;
Escolha ter pensamentos lúcidos; inspiradores e confiantes;
Escolha ambientes profissionais cooperativos e estimulantes;
Escolha ser próspero em todos os níveis (material, mental, emocional e espiritual); Escolha relações afetivas que te engrandeçam e contribuam para que evoluas na tua missão;
Escolha adquirir conhecimentos que te empoderem e contribuam para se encantar consigo mesmo e com a existência;
Escolha ser saudável e cuidar de si com carinho e dedicação;
Escolha pelo menos três coisas consideradas impossíveis e as realize em 2014;
Escolha proporcionar tudo isso que escolhestes para ti a todos aqueles da tua convivência;
E, sobretudo, escolha estar presente.
(Wallace Liimaa)

Ressonância - Resonance

Questions of Dogma - Questões de Dogma


Love, Dja